Sons of immature (uninitiated) men become peterpan or players

No exception.

Cultures where sex is considered more conservatively, they become peter pans.

Cultures where sex is considered more like a need maybe even entitled to receive sexual access to a woman’s body (Patriarchy) or holding the view of God made me to be the giver of sex to woman ie without me she cannot receive sex! (Christian), they become players and most degeneratively rapists.

When a group of males feel safe talking to each other about their body count AND their satisfaction count (how many people left feeling sexually satisfied after as noted in their diary) as well as their abortion count, ghosted count, blocked counts, love/romance/relationship count, use of viagra, herpes status, spontaneous ejaculations, how many women refused sex to them, how many prostitutes have they needed in their sexual lives and why, their last three views on incognito mode, how they truly feel when a women they want enjoys sex with someone other than them……..they start the journey of becoming real men.

This directly reduces the violence perpetuated by abusing the pursuit of pleasure by immature males. Abuse, ie the unconscious dependency on sex for co-regulation or connection instead of embodied mutual pleasure-driven, informed, and enthusiastic consent between two sovereign beings. Without healthy interdependence and connection during childhood, a pubescent male will associate connection to sex and therefore collapse the experience of human connection to sexual exchanges. This severs his capacity to engage the deep Eros of connection as available with presence even inside the drop of a rain without a woman in sight.

A healthy sexual exchange is where no party is left having lost their power and soverignty. When consent is absent and intent is hidden, both parties leave with an imbalance, which life will work through at the birthing table of our species in every country on Earth.