What is going to transform humanity?

The sex lives of women.

Women knowing how to be with men and their own sovereignty is what transforms culture at the speed of every pursuit of pleasure.

When women know what experiences are truly satisfying for them, they choose to say no instead of appease a man with power, fame, prestige, fortune. They prioritize their own satisfaction and not of the person they are with. They believe what satisfies them is both deservable and available. Hence no need to settle or compromise. They may also carry the knowing that what satisfies them sexually serves humanity. (wink wink)

We can have multiple relationships or just one and still not know if we are satisfied by a sexual experience because pleasure is felt in the body and our bodies hold collective memory (trauma). Pleasure requires presence and we are all currently distracted by politicians, news channels and celebrities rather than the most magical power of the flow of our life (def here). This requires instincts. They are within us. Just forgotten.

The feeling of being done in a sexual exchange is a milestone for a woman to blossom her sexuality fully. You have the right to feel done no matter who you consent to commune sexually. The two bodied beingness of a man and female body communing, holds the archetypal energy of his pace, his pleasure taking precedence. We have the power to stand for our joy and pleasure in every sexual experience we engage in. In some ways, we must as an act of our own liberation.